Should Ms. Right Post You On Social Media?

When I’m not ordering suits like Embarambamba’s, I help men get and keep women for long-term relationships. 

Today’s question comes from a man who took out a potential girlfriend on a road trip but was left out of her social media photos after the trip. 

The first man to understand women in 6000 years sets him straight.

Should Ms. Right Post You On Social Media?

I met Sally two months ago through a mutual friend. She’s 26, and I’m 31. She’s also beautiful, outgoing, fun-loving, and makes for great company.

For our third date, I took her on a road trip to Nakuru and back to Nairobi. It was an amazing experience.

We took beautiful pictures together, had a great time and she was all over me like white on rice.

Sally is a big social media user. She’s got tons of pictures of herself on Instagram and whenever she has a good time, you won’t miss a record of it on her WhatsApp status.

Personally, I only use social media to check out pretty girls and hardly post pictures of myself.

Here’s the problem though. That evening and the following two days after our road trip, I camped on all her social media platforms to see if she would post our pictures together but all I saw was just her own pictures.

There’s one photo of her sitting on top of my car’s bonnet but she covered the number plate with an emoji!

There’s absolutely no record or mention of me! I was so disappointed I didn’t like or comment on any of them.

Sally loves attention so I expected her to ask me why I didn’t like or comment on any of her pictures as I usually do but she hasn’t bothered.

Now, I think that’s something girls only do with men they’re not proud of like sponsors. Doc, how do I handle this matter? Should I be upfront and raise it up directly with her?

Honestly, I feel used. You don’t spend all that money to treat a girl and she can’t be bothered to post you on her status.

Does Sally love me or does she see me as a sponsor to be hidden like a bad habit?


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